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<!-- MAIN //--> <div id="main"> <div id="exploreSite"> <p><a href="#show-site" id="toggle-site" class="action-exploreSite">explore site</a></p> </div> <p id="breadcrumb"> <a href='/'>Home</a> <span>»</span> <a href='/Explore-your-stage/'>your stage</a> <span>»</span> <a href='/Explore-your-stage/Trying-for-a-baby/'>Trying for a baby</a> <span>»</span></p> <h1>Wellbeing</h1> <div id="content"> <div class="box w075"> <h2>What would you like to read?*</h2> <p class="important"> <noindex> <div> <p>*Some of these articles were written by Treasures Baby Club members. SCA Hygiene Australasia Ltd makes no claim as to the accuracy or suitability for your particular circumstances of the advice these articles may contain. This advice is not intended as a substitute for personal consultation with your LMC or other medical professional. 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Everyone seems to think it happens and your sad for a week and you just move on, but it can take a lot longer than that and i can feel your pain after having two. Even though you never hel those babies they were very real too you i your head and heart and people dont seem to understand that until they have gone through it themselves. Can you maybe talk to them and let them know how you are feeling??" </p> <p class="nM"> <a href="http://www.treasures.co.nz/Explore-your-stage/Story/?contentId=194230">Read all comments on this story</a> </p> </div> <div class="side"> <div id="ctl00_FullContent_Main_PageContent_ucArticleStoryList_lvArticlesStories_ctrl0_lvComment_ctrl0_ucAvatar_pnlContainer" class="profile type-medium"> <div id="ctl00_FullContent_Main_PageContent_ucArticleStoryList_lvArticlesStories_ctrl0_lvComment_ctrl0_ucAvatar_pnlContent" class="details stage-pregnant kids-2 location-new_zealand offline "> <a class="avatar"> <img id="ctl00_FullContent_Main_PageContent_ucArticleStoryList_lvArticlesStories_ctrl0_lvComment_ctrl0_ucAvatar_imgAvatar" src="/EPiServerCommunity/Modules/ImageGallery/Thumbnails/37/85437/20059_51701.jpg" style="border-width:0px;" /> </a> <a id="ctl00_FullContent_Main_PageContent_ucArticleStoryList_lvArticlesStories_ctrl0_lvComment_ctrl0_ucAvatar_hlUserName" class="username" onclick="changeTopLocation('http://www.treasures.co.nz/Community/People/Public-Profile/?userId=13695&noiframe=1');return false;">Unique_Nique49</a> <span class="extra"></span> <ul> <li class="status">offline</li> <li>0 stories</li> <li>0 recommendation</li> </ul> <em> </em> <dl> <dt class="stage">Stage:</dt> <dd>Pregnant</dd> <dt class="kids">Kids:</dt> <dd> Kale, 5 years<br />Miley, 3 years, 11 months </dd> <dt class="location">Location:</dt> <dd>Tauranga</dd> </dl> <span class="summary"><span>Pregnant, <br />from</span> Tauranga</span> <p><a id="ctl00_FullContent_Main_PageContent_ucArticleStoryList_lvArticlesStories_ctrl0_lvComment_ctrl0_ucAvatar_hlViewProfile" class="more" onclick="changeTopLocation('http://www.treasures.co.nz/Community/People/Public-Profile/?userId=13695&noiframe=1');return false;">View profile</a></p> <div class="gfx-b"></div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </li> </ul> <div class="nav-list bT"> <div class="fR"> </div> </div> <div class="gfx-b"></div> </div> </div> <!--// CONTENT --> <!-- SIDE //--> <div id="side"> </div> <!--// SIDE --> </div> <!--// MAIN -->